What we work on · Therapy stigma

Therapy when your family thinks therapy is shameful

'Log kya kahenge' has kept more people out of therapy than cost ever has. In many Indian families, needing help is heard as weakness, or worse, as something that reflects on the whole family.

You do not have to win that argument before getting support. Online sessions are private, held outside your community, and nothing is shared with anyone.

Psychotherapist + Executive CoachCBT · DBT · SFBT · REBTM.A. Psychology
Komel Kaur, psychotherapist working online with Indian families on therapy stigma

Komel Kaur

Psychotherapist + Executive Coach

  • M.A. Psychology

    CBT and DBT trained psychotherapist

  • 5 languages

    English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu, Kashmiri

  • 60-minute sessions

    Online video, times shown on your own clock

  • No payment to request

    Ask for a time first, pay once it is confirmed

Komel Kaur

Reviewed by Komel Kaur, psychotherapist and executive coach, M.A. Psychology

Last reviewed 20 August 2026

What this often looks like

  • ·Wanting help but not wanting anyone to know
  • ·Worrying it will affect marriage prospects or reputation
  • ·Being told to pray, adjust, or just be strong
  • ·Having searched for therapists for months without booking
  • ·Being afraid of being labelled or medicated
  • ·Not knowing what actually happens in a session

What we actually do in sessions

  • ·First session is a conversation, not a diagnosis or a form-filling exercise.
  • ·You set the pace and choose what you talk about.
  • ·Everything is confidential. Nothing goes to family, employer, or community.
  • ·Sessions are online video, so nobody sees you walk into a clinic.
  • ·You decide after the first session whether to continue. No packages required.

Format

Online video

Private and confidential

Sessions in

English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu

Where clients are

Gulf, UK, Europe, North America, Australia, India

Want a starting point before you talk to anyone?

Common questions

Will anyone find out I am in therapy?

No. Sessions are private online video, records are confidential, and Komel practises outside your local community.

Do I need a diagnosis to start?

No. Most people come with 'something feels off', which is enough.

Can I try one session first?

Yes. There is a short introductory session so you can see how it feels before committing to anything.

Ready when you are

Pick a session and a time in your own timezone, then send the request. Nothing is paid until Komel confirms.

Other things people bring here

Online therapy by country

How it works

Three steps, about five minutes.

No waiting list, no phone tag, no chasing a reply. You can have a time requested before you close this page, and nothing is paid until it is confirmed.

Komel Kaur at her desk, framed by her framed qualifications

01

Pick a session and a time

Choose the session you want and a slot that suits you. Times are shown on your own clock, and evening slots are open.

02

Request it, no payment yet

Leave a few details and send the request. The slot is held for you while Komel confirms she is the right fit.

03

Confirm and get your Meet link

Komel sends a payment link for that session. Once it is paid, the Google Meet link lands in your inbox.

From the practice

What Komel writes about, week to week.

When this is not the right fit

Komel is a psychotherapist and executive coach based in the UAE, working online worldwide. Sessions are private and self-funded, and cannot be claimed on local insurance or used for legal, medical or workplace reports. She does not prescribe or manage medication.

This is not an emergency service. If you are in immediate danger, use a local crisis line rather than a booking request. Her credentials and training and the full scope of practice are published.