Does my partner see my answers?

No. Each of you answers privately. The joint report shows scores, gaps and readings for both sides — never the raw answers either of you gave.

Do we both have to pay?

No. One payment of USD 49 covers both partners and the joint report.

How long does it take?

About 10 minutes each. There are 44 statements, answered on a five-point agree-to-disagree scale.

What if my partner never fills it in?

You still get a report based on your own side, and a reminder goes out to them. When they do answer, the joint version replaces it.

Can this be used for an arranged-marriage introduction?

Yes — that's what the Compatibility Check is designed for. Both people answer before or during the introduction stage, and the report lays out expectations on money, family involvement, children, faith, location, roles and career as aligned, negotiable or in conflict. There is an optional bands-only summary you can both agree to share with family or a matchmaker.

No. It is an educational relationship assessment and does not diagnose any condition.

Find out what you're actually agreeing to, before you marry

A compatibility test for marriage is one both people take separately before comparing answers. This one is 44 questions, about 10 minutes each, and covers attachment, conflict style, trust, closeness and practical expectations — money, family involvement, children, faith, where you live, roles at home and careers. One joint report marks each area aligned, negotiable or in conflict. USD 49 covers both people.

Which one fits:Relationship Check-inCompatibility Check

Families ask about horoscopes, salaries and photographs. Almost nobody asks the two people whether they handle conflict the same way, whether they want children on the same timeline, or who they expect to cook. The Compatibility Check does — separately, honestly, and then side by side.

Start the compatibility check · USD 49≈ AED 180 · ≈ £39 · one payment, both partners

How it works

Step 1
You answer, on your own
44 questions, about 10 minutes. No one is watching over your shoulder — that's the point.
Step 2
The other person gets a private link
Emailed straight to them, or you send it yourself. They answer separately, with no sight of your answers.
Step 3
One joint report, written for both of you
Attachment pairing, five dimensions side by side, your three biggest gaps, and the conversation to have this week.

What the 44 questions cover

Attachment items are drawn from the ECR-R tradition; the rest are modelled on established relationship-satisfaction and conflict research. Two attachment subscales, plus five scored dimensions:

Communication and repair

Whether hard things get said, heard, and put back together afterwards.

Trust and security

Reliability, transparency, and the absence of quiet suspicion.

Closeness and affection

Emotional and physical warmth, and how freely it is offered.

Conflict handling

What each of you does when the temperature rises.

Shared direction

Money, family, children, faith, place, roles and career — the practical life you are agreeing to.

Attachment pairing

Anxiety and avoidance for each of you, and — the part that matters — what the combination of the two of you tends to produce in a hard moment.

What lands in your inbox

Your attachment pairing, named and explained in plain language — with what it does under stress.
A five-dimension scorecard with both of your scores next to each other, and the gap between them.
Your three widest gaps, with the specific items that produced them and what to actually do about each.
An expectations table — money, family involvement, children, faith, where you live, roles at home, careers — marked aligned, negotiable, or in conflict.
The three things you already agree on more strongly than you realise.
One structured conversation to have this week, with guardrails so it doesn't turn into the same fight.
A readiness paragraph you can genuinely act on — including if the honest answer is 'not yet'.

Your answers stay yours

Neither of you ever sees the other's raw answers. The report shows scores, gaps and readings — never a transcript of what your partner said about you. Nothing is posted, nothing is shared, and there is no public profile. If you want to show a summary to family or a matchmaker, there's an optional link that carries bands only — no answers, no attachment labels — and it only exists while both of you keep it switched on.

Start the compatibility check

One payment covers both of you

You answer first, then the other person gets a private link by email. Neither of you sees the other's answers — only the joint report.

Your name

Your email

Your WhatsApp number

The other person's name (optional)

The other person's email (optional)

You can skip this and send the private link yourself after you pay.

Pay in

I consent to Komel storing these details, emailing the joint report, and contacting me about it. This is an educational assessment, not a diagnosis or an emergency service.

Secure payment by MamoPay. Charged in AED (equivalent of USD 49). Includes a USD 15 credit toward a couples or pre-marital session.

Take this into a pre-marital session

Pre-marital work is two or three structured sessions, not therapy for a problem — you bring this report and work through the areas it flags before they become married life. The report carries a USD 15 credit toward it, so nothing here is money spent twice.

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Not quite your situation?

Relationship Check-in

For two people already building a life together.

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This assessment is educational. It is not a diagnosis, not couples therapy, and not suitable as a safety assessment. If there is violence, coercion or fear in the relationship, please contact local support services rather than starting here.