Does my partner see my answers?

No. Each of you answers privately. The joint report shows scores, gaps and readings for both sides - never the raw answers either of you gave.

Do we have to pay before we answer?

No. You answer first, then your partner answers, and USD 49 is only due once both sides are in. If one side never answers, you pay nothing.

Do we both have to pay?

No. One payment of USD 49 covers both partners and the joint report.

How long does it take?

About 10 minutes each. There are 44 statements, answered on a five-point agree-to-disagree scale.

What if my partner never fills it in?

You pay nothing, and you can still request an individual read of your own side after the waiting period passes.

Is this couples therapy?

No. It's an assessment that gives a couples session a running start. The report carries a USD 15 credit toward a first joint session if you want one.

No. It is an educational relationship assessment and does not diagnose any condition.

See your relationship from both sides at once

A two-sided relationship test is one both partners take separately, then read together. This one is 44 questions, about 10 minutes each, and produces a single joint report: your attachment pairing, five dimensions scored side by side, your three widest gaps, and one structured conversation to have this week. Start free; USD 49 is only due once both of you have answered.

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Most couples argue about the surface of the same three things for years. This gives you the shape underneath: how each of you attaches, what each of you does when the temperature rises, and where you are quietly assuming the other agrees.

Start the relationship check-in freeUSD 49 only after both answer · ≈ AED 180 · ≈ £39

How it works

Step 1
You answer, on your own
44 questions, about 10 minutes. No one is watching over your shoulder - that's the point.
Step 2
The other person gets a private link
Emailed straight to them, or you send it yourself. They answer separately, with no sight of your answers.
Step 3
Pay only when both sides are in
Once both of you have answered, USD 49 unlocks the full joint report. No upfront payment, no lost money if one side doesn't finish.

What the 44 questions cover

Attachment items are drawn from the ECR-R tradition; the rest are modelled on established relationship-satisfaction and conflict research. Two attachment subscales, plus five scored dimensions:

Communication and repair

Whether hard things get said, heard, and put back together afterwards.

Trust and security

Reliability, transparency, and the absence of quiet suspicion.

Closeness and affection

Emotional and physical warmth, and how freely it is offered.

Conflict handling

What each of you does when the temperature rises.

Shared direction

Money, family, children, faith, place, roles and career - the practical life you are agreeing to.

Attachment pairing

Anxiety and avoidance for each of you, and - the part that matters - what the combination of the two of you tends to produce in a hard moment.

What lands in your inbox

Your attachment pairing, named and explained in plain language - with what it does under stress.
A five-dimension scorecard with both of your scores next to each other, and the gap between them.
Your three widest gaps, with the specific items that produced them and what to actually do about each.
An expectations table for money, family, children, faith, place, roles and career, marked aligned, negotiable, or in conflict.
The three things you already agree on more strongly than you realise.
One structured conversation to have this week, with guardrails so it doesn't turn into the same fight.
A readiness paragraph: what this relationship can carry right now, and what needs work first.

Your answers stay yours

Neither of you ever sees the other's raw answers. The report shows scores, gaps and readings - never a transcript of what your partner said about you. Nothing is posted, nothing is shared, and there is no public profile. If you ever want to show a summary to someone, that's an optional link you both have to switch on, and either of you can revoke it.

Start the relationship check-in

Start free, pay only when both of you have answered

You answer first, then your partner gets a private link by email. Neither of you sees the other's answers - only the joint report. USD 49 unlocks the report once both sides are in.

Your name

Your email

Your WhatsApp number

Your partner's name (optional)

Your partner's email (optional)

You can skip this and send the private link yourself after you answer.

I consent to Komel storing these details, emailing the joint report, and contacting me about it. This is an educational assessment, not a diagnosis or an emergency service.

USD 49 unlocks the joint report once both partners have answered. Includes a USD 15 credit toward a couples or pre-marital session.

Take this into a first couples session

A first couples session starts from this report rather than from scratch - the pattern is already named, so the hour goes into working it. The report carries a USD 15 credit toward it, so nothing here is money spent twice.

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Compatibility Check

For two people deciding whether to build a life together.

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This assessment is educational. It is not a diagnosis, not couples therapy, and not suitable as a safety assessment. If there is violence, coercion or fear in the relationship, please contact local support services rather than starting here.