What we work on · Supporting family back home
Therapy for the guilt of supporting family back home
You are the one who sends money, arranges the doctor, calms the crisis by phone at 2am, and books the emergency flight. Everyone thinks you are coping because you keep doing it.
Long-distance caregiving is real caregiving, and it comes with real depletion, plus a guilt that never fully clears because you are never quite there.
Komel Kaur
Psychologist + Executive Coach
M.A. Psychology
CBT and DBT trained psychologist
5 languages
English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu, Kashmiri
60-minute sessions
Online video, times shown on your own clock
No payment to request
Ask for a time first, pay once it is confirmed
Reviewed by Komel Kaur, psychologist and executive coach, M.A. Psychology
Last reviewed 20 August 2026
What this often looks like
- ·Financial strain you have not told anyone about
- ·Fear every time the phone rings at an odd hour
- ·Resentment towards siblings who do less
- ·Guilt whenever you spend money on yourself
- ·Exhaustion that sleep does not fix
- ·Feeling responsible for every family member's outcome
What we actually do in sessions
- ·We map the load you are actually carrying, financially and emotionally.
- ·We work on limits that do not feel like abandonment.
- ·We handle sibling and family conflict about who does what.
- ·We separate genuine responsibility from inherited obligation.
- ·We look after you, which is usually the item missing from the list.
Format
Online video
Private and confidential
Sessions in
English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu
Where clients are
Gulf, UK, Europe, North America, Australia, India
Want a starting point before you talk to anyone?
Common questions
Is it selfish to want limits here?
No. Sustainable support is worth more to your family than support that collapses.
Can family members join a session?
Sometimes that helps, and it can be arranged. Most people start alone.
I am functioning fine. Is this worth a session?
High-functioning depletion is one of the most common things Komel sees. Functioning is not the same as being okay.
Ready when you are
Pick a session and a time in your own timezone, then send the request. Nothing is paid until Komel confirms.
Other things people bring here
Online therapy by country
How it works
Three steps, about five minutes.
No waiting list, no phone tag, no chasing a reply. You can have a time requested before you close this page, and nothing is paid until it is confirmed.
01
Pick a session and a time
Choose the session you want and a slot that suits you. Times are shown on your own clock, and evening slots are open.
02
Request it, no payment yet
Leave a few details and send the request. The slot is held for you while Komel confirms she is the right fit.
03
Confirm and get your Meet link
Komel sends a payment link for that session. Once it is paid, the Google Meet link lands in your inbox.
Sessions and pricing
Pick the session that fits, then a time.
Full session
60 minutes
USD 70USD 49
Your first session. USD 70 for sessions after that.
New client offerOne-off, no commitment
A complete therapy hour, one to one.
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Most chosen5-session plan
60 minutes
USD 49per session
Same price every time.
Save 30% per sessionPaid upfront, covers all five sessions
Five hours of real work at the lower rate the whole way through.
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Couples session
60 minutes, for two
USD 120USD 99
Your first session. USD 120 for sessions after that.
New client offerOne-off, no commitment
One hour with both partners on the same video call.
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From the practice
What Komel writes about, week to week.
When this is not the right fit
Komel is a psychologist and executive coach based in the UAE, working online worldwide. Sessions are private and self-funded, and cannot be claimed on local insurance or used for legal, medical or workplace reports. She does not prescribe or manage medication.
This is not an emergency service. If you are in immediate danger, use a local crisis line rather than a booking request. Her credentials and training and the full scope of practice are published.