Depression · online video sessions

Am I depressed?

Depression isn't just sadness. It can feel like numbness, heaviness, or losing interest in things that used to matter. Sometimes it looks like withdrawing from people, or pushing through the day while nothing feels rewarding.

Want a read on where you are first? Take the free PHQ-9 self-test.

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Komel Kaur, psychotherapist working online with people navigating depression

Komel Kaur

Psychotherapist + Executive Coach

  • M.A. Psychology

    CBT and DBT trained psychotherapist

  • 5 languages

    English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu, Kashmiri

  • 60-minute sessions

    Online video, times shown on your own clock

  • No payment to request

    Ask for a time first, pay once it is confirmed

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Komel Kaur

Reviewed by Komel Kaur, psychotherapist and executive coach, M.A. Psychology

Last reviewed 20 August 2026

What it can feel like

Depression can be invisible. You might still show up to work, care for family, and keep commitments - while feeling like you're operating at 40%. Or it might feel impossible to get out of bed. Both are real.

Many people describe it as a heaviness, a fog, or a flatness. Things that once brought joy feel distant. The future feels hard to imagine. If this has been going on for more than two weeks, it's worth paying attention to.

Common signs

  • ·Low mood most of the day, nearly every day
  • ·Loss of interest or pleasure in things you used to enjoy
  • ·Significant changes in sleep or appetite
  • ·Fatigue or low energy
  • ·Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • ·Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • ·Restlessness or moving more slowly than usual
  • ·Thoughts of death or self-harm

Start with a free self-check

The screeners below are the same ones used in clinics worldwide. They're free, private, and take a few minutes. Your results appear on screen immediately.

Depression · Primary screener

Depression Self-Test

The modern clinical standard for depression screening. 9 questions, about 3 minutes.

PHQ-9
9 questions · ~3 minTake the test →

What therapy for depression looks like

I work with adults to understand the patterns underneath low mood - thoughts, relationships, life circumstances, and what has or hasn't helped before. We move at a pace that feels possible.

  • CBT and behavioral activation to rebuild momentum
  • Exploring the roots of low mood without judgment
  • Practical tools for sleep, energy, and daily structure
  • A clear plan and regular check-ins on progress

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Common questions

Is the PHQ-9 a diagnosis?

No. The PHQ-9 is a screening tool that measures how much depression has been affecting you over the last two weeks. A higher score suggests it's worth speaking with a mental health professional; it does not diagnose depression on its own.

How long does the depression test take?

The PHQ-9 has nine questions and takes most people about two minutes. You get your results on screen immediately, and you can choose to have them emailed to you.

Can therapy really help with depression?

Yes. For many people, therapy is as effective as medication, and the two together can be even more effective. The right approach depends on the person, the severity, and what has been tried before.

What if I have thoughts of self-harm?

If you're having thoughts of harming yourself or feel unsafe, please contact your local emergency service or a crisis line right away. This practice is not set up for acute crisis support. Once you're safe, we can talk about ongoing therapy.

How it works

Three steps, about five minutes.

No waiting list, no phone tag, no chasing a reply. You can have a time requested before you close this page, and nothing is paid until it is confirmed.

Komel Kaur at her desk, framed by her framed qualifications

01

Pick a session and a time

Choose the session you want and a slot that suits you. Times are shown on your own clock, and evening slots are open.

02

Request it, no payment yet

Leave a few details and send the request. The slot is held for you while Komel confirms she is the right fit.

03

Confirm and get your Meet link

Komel sends a payment link for that session. Once it is paid, the Google Meet link lands in your inbox.

From the practice

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When this is not the right fit

Komel is a psychotherapist and executive coach based in the UAE, working online worldwide. Sessions are private and self-funded, and cannot be claimed on local insurance or used for legal, medical or workplace reports. She does not prescribe or manage medication.

This is not an emergency service. If you are in immediate danger, use a local crisis line rather than a booking request. Her credentials and training and the full scope of practice are published.